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How to be Charismatic

Charisma is a strange thing. I have been told in different situations that I’m both very charismatic, and very charisma mellow. Fashion Tips for Men is all about making you look good, no matter what you do. That’s why charisma is an important topic that can play an important role.

If you’re going out for the night, what you wear may or may not help your charisma. Attention grabbing clothes definitely help to make you stand out more, but you need to be able to back it up. This is not the time to be quiet; this is the time to make your voice heard. If you’re like me, you don’t necessarily like to be the center of attention, but that doesn’t mean you can sit in the corner and just watch everyone else having a conversation (even though this can be fun at times, too).

Get in a quick quip, a mild joke, or something else that makes people notice you’re there. If you have an opinion on the conversation, share it! People are quite willing to hear someone else’s opinion on a topic they’re interested in. Personally I’ve always found that I have a different way of looking at things. If you’re talking to someone about their own field, they may appreciate another point of view as well. Be careful, though, because you don’t want your wording to sound like you know more than them.

Charisma comes down to being part of the party. You have probably noticed the center-of-attention guy in the crowd seems very charismatic most of the time. It’s because he talks, responds to people, and will keep a conversation smoothly flowing where others won’t. I’ll admit, this isn’t always the easiest thing to do. Sometimes a slight subject change (remember, slight) can be something you need to keep the conversation going. Always remember that you can ask questions about the person you’re talking to. Most people like to discuss what they’re doing, where they came from, and how they got to be who they are. It’s in our nature to want to share.

If you take nothing else away from this article, take away the fact that talking is going to make you seem more charismatic. Keep the conversations light, flowing, and pointed. While your own topics of conversation might be beneficial, remember that going too much in depth about your own hobbies and likes might bore some people or make them not feel involved because they aren’t sure what you’re talking about.

I hope this has been a helpful Fashion Tips for Men. The more I write these articles the more I realize that I like the “indirect” fashion tips more than the direct. Anyone can tell you what shirt can match with what. When it comes to “how do I act?”, that’s a whole different story.

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